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1.Define conflict and discuss the difference between good and bad conflict.

2.Identify the 4 causes of conflict as described in the Bible. Read the following passages for assistance:

a Acts 15:1-20

b 1 Corinthians 12:12-31

c Genesis 13:1-12

d James 4:1-3

3.Identify each segment of the slippery slope of addressing conflict, and discuss examples of each type from the Bible and your own experiences.

See this link for a complete explanation of the slippery slope. Here are some Bible examples and common personal examples:

A. ESCAPE

Deny

Personal Example: alcoholic who says "I don't have a drinking problem" Bible Example:

Blame Game

Personal Example: Bible Example: Template:Bible link:Genesis 3:11-13 When confronted with sin Adam said "You gave this woman to me. She gave me fruit from the tree. So I ate it." Not to be outdone, Eve said "The snake tricked me. So I ate the fruit."

Run Away

Personal Example: Parent can't deal with pressures of life so they just leave their family. Bible Example: Genesis 3:9-10 The Lord said "Where are you?" The man answered: "I heard you walking in the garden. I was afraid because I was naked. So I hid." Bible Example: Genesis 27-28 Jacob, on the advice of his mother, fled his home because he feared his brother.

B. ATTACK

Put Downs

Gossip

Fight

C. WORK-IT-OUT/CONCILIATION

Overlook

Talk-It-Out

Get Help

4.Reverse role-play a conflict from your own life and identify where you are on the “slippery slope” and what possible conciliation options you might try.

References

The Young Peacemaker by "Peacemaker Ministries"